Kittens vs. Cougars-Guest Post
As you may know, I’ve been reading LisaQ’s blog for a while. I’ve had several discussions with her regarding her ability to be considered a Cougar. Long before Stiffler’s Mom and Age of Love I embraced the Cougar. Why? This woman possesses a lot of things that the younger women don’t always have. The number 1 thing I notice about the Cougar is their level of confidence. They might have faults or insecurities, but they have learned from experience how to deal with them. Nothing says sexy more than a woman who says, “I’m not perfect, I can do everything the younger woman can do but better.” Of course, this creates the Kittens vs. Cougars.
I have dated women that are in their mid-20’s. One of my biggest complaints is their lack of experience in life. They are still trying to figure out what they want in life and how to achieve those goals. One thing about the Kittens, they also still have the idea that there isn’t happiness unless they are in a relationship. They seemed shocked to realize that you can be happy if you’re single. They still want the dream wedding, the house, the white picket fence, 2.5 kids and they want you to pay for it. Ok, maybe all women want that, but Kittens expect it more than the Cougar.
I have also dated women that are in their late 40’s. One of the best things about my experience is they are comfortable with their lives. They see challenges; they conquer challenges and then move on. Why? They have experience and wisdom on their side. If they don’t have the answers, they don’t mind asking others for help. I think somewhere between Kitten and Cougar-hood they discover themselves. The Cougar discards the social pressures to fit into the mold of what others think they should be. They realize that true happiness comes from within and not from others’ opinions. One of my biggest attractions to a Cougar is her sexuality. Surprisingly, she has suffered through years of sexual frustration. Ok, maybe not years. But it’s common among Cougars. At their age they appreciate intimacy and great sexual satisfaction. Sometimes this is the most publicized attraction to a Cougar. The simple fact is there is more to a Cougar than just sex. It’s her desire to want to travel, see the world and experience what the world has to offer. No wonder 34% of the women over 40 are dating younger men.
Eathan- www.idatewhite.com
Eathan@idatewhite.com
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